Depression Talk

There are a few people in this world who I allow to openly tease me about my insanity. My best friend often greets me in the morning shaking about any number of pill bottles, depending on my current regimen, singing “Take your meds, Crazy Girl!”

I love to laugh at the things that I do that are insane. I can’t stack dishes that haven’t been rinsed, and I can’t possibly have my socks arranged in a manner that is anything less than … military? Insane? Over the tops? Who knows.

I try not to take my issues with anxiety and depression too seriously. I think, though, that if the wrong person were to make some of the comments that my mother or best friend ever made, I’d be tempted to remove his or her teeth from his or her head. With my right fist.

The Internet provides me with a level of safety in discussing the things that are wrong with me. My Network allows me to discuss freely the things that are on my mind. I once admitted to my best friend that I lied to her: I refused to go to a social gathering of hers because I was too scared of interacting with other people to leave the house.

And like any best friend would, like every best friend should, she laughed at me in the end, asking why on Earth I thought she would want me to go to an event that would leave me dry heaving and erupting in hives in the restroom. And she looked at me, and she laughed. It was real laughter, the kind that erupts from deep within you and escapes like an oil spill, taking over everything it can, and leaving nothing untouched in its wake. She laughed for so long and so hard that I was concerned for her well-being and when she stopped, she put a hand on my knee and looked directly in my eyes.

She said:

“Amanda. My God. You are so fucking crazy! If you didn’t want to go, for God’s sake, just TELL me. Oh, my nutbar.” She stopped and chuckled here once more. “Oh, my lunatic, my crazy girl. You’re crazy but I love you.”

I’ve heard before that laughter is the best medicine. I think, though, that really, the most potent laughter is one shared with a close friend, and better than that is sharing it with a close friend who has seen me through every step of my insanity thus far in my life.

The Dixie Chicks once sang that Some days/ Ya gotta Dance. I love to take it one step further and state that some days, you gotta laugh. Laugh long and hard because really? What matters the most?

Is that you may be screwed up a little in the head, but if nothing else, you have a good friend to laugh with about your insanity.

Amanda